Meet the Other D.J. Paris

I'm a Gay Asian From New York
the other D.J. Paris
I’m a gay Asian From New York.

Let me introduce you to the other D.J. Paris.

He’s a gay Asian from New York.

I know this because back in 1998 when I stumbled across his website, this is what appeared as his tagline. I was simply looking to see if there was, in fact, a djparis.com. Turns out there absolutely was and is. READ MORE

Let’s Take The Focus Off Me

The color-coding never occurred to me!

I’d like to do something a little different today on the blog. Something I have never done before.

Focus on someone else other than me.

It’s time to acknowledge my girlfriend Jessica for a for a few reasons. First, and most recent is that she stayed behind in Chicago while I went to New York to hang out at BlogHer for the weekend. While this doesn’t unique I should mention a few items. READ MORE

I’ve Got Two Chihuahuas Sleeping In My Bed

This was the most fit woman I could find in a chain mail bikini. Before you judge her shape, remember this – she is more comfortable with her body than you are. I don't even like my cat to see my stomach. She judges!

So, as the title suggests, I have two chihuahuas sleeping in my bed.  One is my own – Lil’ Miss Meepers.  The other is the property of my girlfriend Jessica – Dirk.

Jessica is at a fashion conference and so I have the dogs to myself.

Dirk is rotund while Meepers is fit.  That’s all that is necessary to say. READ MORE

Going On a Date Tonight… With Dad

I’ve lived in Chicago for over ten years and never been to The Goodman Theatre.   I’ve seen a dozen or so Broadway performances when they make their way here, but have not visited the most well–respected performance company in the city.
This is particularly strange for me as I’ve been to over fifty crappy Cubs games despite the fact that I don’t follow baseball and couldn’t name one player on the team. READ MORE

I Get Drunk On Not-Eating

A girl took me to lunch today.

Actually, I paid, but it was her idea.

In my profession, which is managing Chicago real estate agents, I am constantly recruiting.

Many firms simply do a terrible job of supporting their realtors and leasing agents, and I am always reaching out asking if they would be interested to join our firm. READ MORE