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https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/ Humor blogger D.J. Paris writes about the most interesting subject in the world - himself. It's worth a look if you're cool. And you are! Fri, 14 Sep 2012 17:51:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9026 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 17:51:27 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9026 I do the same thing where I get all in my head and people think I’m not listening. I’m working on active listening. And also not closing my eyes when I’m talking to someone, because I do that too.

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9018 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 04:30:04 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9018 I don’t understand psychology, because in my mind I would think that you are recognizing these idiosyncrasies, and therefore should stop and think about it when they happen. I guess you can’t do that when you’re crazy, but that’s what I think should happen. Do you not realize it until long after it has happened, or do you realize it as it’s happening, but just can’t stop? I’m just wondering, because I desperately want to be a therapist, but I have no training, or tangible experience.

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9003 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 20:28:48 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9003 @tfpHumorBlog I wanna slap them…but not in the left tit!

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9002 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 20:08:48 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9002 Reminds me of my Son In Law & drives me insane (okay-more insane than I am already). I do hope you find out why you get angry with anyone who disagrees with you. When you do, please let us know so maybe I can understand why my SIL does. I do enjoy a good disagreement about just about anything, but I never get angry when someone doesn’t agree with me. I just know that is what makes the world go around – who wants to live in a Stepford World, but he actually gets so angry that it worries me. I grew up in a home full of screaming and yelling so this anger actually makes me sick to my stomach. Keep up the hard work!!

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9001 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 15:48:50 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9001 I like to play devil’s advocate. That’s how I was raised. Also, I worked with lawyers for almost 20 years and you have to think that way to a certain degree if you want to be good at what you do. Seems to drive the bf crazy because he thinks when I present the alternate viewpoint, that I support said viewpoint, which is not always the case. He attacks me about Viewpoint 1 before I can get to Alternative Viewpoint (2).

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-9000 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 15:03:47 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-9000 I used to have this issue, but because I had this irrational need to be right all the time, and why would someone believe something that wasn’t right?? I got over it by telling myself I may be right, but if the other person still disagrees, they’re the ones losing out. On the rightness. Maybe I need to go back to therapy…

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-8999 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 14:23:47 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-8999 You and I are very similar, DJ, but different in one key aspect. While you believe those people are literally lying, I believe I must bring them over to my side, because there’s no possible way I can be wrong. And I will make every excuse in the book in order to be right. My  stubbornness  is like a physical wall that I can’t climb over. I can NOT admit that I was wrong, even if I know logically that it will flat out end the argument. Even if I know it means nothing in the long run; even if I really AM right (and yes, sometimes I’m not). But instead of just saying “I was wrong, you were right”, I just sit there in silence. And stew. And I can try and try to push the words out, but it just won’t happen. And then we’re both resentful. Joyful days, those. lol

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-8998 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 14:03:47 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-8998 Were we previously married? lol At least you recognize the problem and are working on it. Good for you

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-8997 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 13:53:47 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-8997 “But as soon as I agree with you, can’t we just move on?” Yes and no. I have this habit when I am doing more than one thing in my brain (which I do often) and it can make people feel you aren’t 1) listening and 2) interested in their point of view. Knowing that is easy – the hard part is where you are now – learning to dialogue in a give and take. If the people wants to explore the different angles of the subject you have to be in on it. Tough to do – hang in there you can do it.

]]> https://thoughtsfromparis.com/thoughts/god-forbid-you-disagree-with-me/#comment-8996 Wed, 12 Sep 2012 13:08:50 +0000 https://thoughtsfromparis.com/?p=3747#comment-8996 therapy isn’t a conversation – it’s for YOU.  My therapist reminds me of that all of the time.  Be selfish when you’re there – you’re paying $140 an hour for it right??? Anyway, my therapist told me that the root of issues like this is that you think other people are doing things you would do – would you ever disagree just for argument?  

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